Valentine's day...

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Love is in the air for valentine's day.

For many its a time of expressing their care, concern, love, intimacy and their commitments. But how many of us can say that love is not a mere physical attraction but a commitment for both sides to each other. Most of us base our love on the literal circumstances and love each other based on the situations and incidents that surround them. But love is not just a commitment alone but a mutual understanding to each other. So how do we know the true love...? True love does not fear anyone...and true love does not worry about the situations and surrounding.

True love does not cheat neither does it hide things. True love is bold and is ready to face any kind of situations. True love is wise and does things wisely (not cunningly). True love will always have the heart to understand, forgive, love, care, and never to give up on the other partner but to believe and have confidence in oneself and in the other partner. If at all there is a failure in love then its because of love not being true but they lacked the confidence and boldness to each other. Many today are living in a lie known as love but its not love but lust (sexual desire). Love is never ending. Love can only be expressed out from the heart and not in materials. Giving gifts, buy things for your lover is all just an outward sign.

What if you do everything for your lover by buying things, gifts, cards, surprises and many more but you really don't know what is it he/she exactly going through in times of tears and loneliness...? Lovers! Husbands &and wives! and my dear friend... this Valentine's day... don't make your valentine day special by gifts make it special by renewing your wows, commitments, mutual understanding, confidence, by giving hope to each other and care to your loved one instead of being a talking parrot saying "I LOVE YOU"

Rencin Matthew

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